http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com Too complicated to explain (not that I won't try anyway) Fri, 16 May 2008 05:20:42 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en  I was quite sure I had another blue rope in that length. "So, if I behave…" She trailed off, moving onto the bed.  I decided to go with two gray 25´ lengths. "If I behave can there be sweaty half-naked men later?"  I smiled. "I can be convinced."   http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/05/16/rewards/ I like to write on my lovers, even if it is something I rarely get to do. As with most of my moé, I also like being written on. (This should shock people entirely none.) It doesn’t have to be words, mind you, I like drawing as well. Thursday I got ... http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/04/27/writing-on-flesh/ My bathtub is too small. While I am glad that it has been fixed, and I am pleased with my pretty goth-red toenails, it is just too small for two people to comfortably pamper one another.  I think in the future I will go more with the "I ... http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/04/23/bath-time/ (this will be rambly as it is 2 in the morning and I just can’t seem to wrangle my thoughts)  People might have guessed it would be a consent post that brought me back. I am, in the words of one of my lovers, a "consent fetishist". By this she means ... http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/02/12/ambivalent-consent/ People who know me in real life will recognize that phrase. Of course a hard drive crash would derail this just when I get any number of visitors due to a Sugasm post. C’est la vie. I am mostly recovered, although I lost more than I care to admit ... http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/02/12/technology-hates-me/ The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #116? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all ... http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/01/24/sugasm-115/ I think one day I will remember that I can get to the kissing/scratching/biting whatever part earlier in the evening. Looking back on it, I think I have always had this tendency to talk and chat and play card games and laugh till too much of the time has slipped ... http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/01/18/clock-watching/ I should probably be glad that Set has an upper limit of 27 tricks if I am ever going to consider playing Vengeance Set with Demonezade. http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/01/18/thankful/ Rona has an interesting post that discusses the fact that her "primary sexual identity is kinky". It is when I read something like that that I remember why this blog is titled as it is, and why I identify as vanilla. Sure, I can enjoy someone raking me with knives, ... http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/01/17/identity/ Sometimes it is worth remembering that even the shiny ones get insecure.  Calico followed up riffing on maymay’s excellent comment on that first post, reminding us again that "Your sex appeal is not your self worth". And that is, of course, very true. (really, just go read her post)  Of course, there ... http://vanillaextract.blogsome.com/2008/01/17/insidious-insecurity/